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Can you imagine how it would be to feel confident, happy, and peaceful, without having to turn your life upside down?

To wake up after a good night's sleep knowing I will be a great day. Enjoying great relationships. Living a life that brings you joy, freedom, purpose and security. 

So ask yourself...are you fed up surviving each day by using alcohol, food, drugs, or whatever it takes to get you through?

Are you ready to make changes that actually work and will give you what you really want?

Most counsellors, coaches, and even psychologists have it wrong.

  • They don't recognise the importance of your individual needs profile. 
  • They give you sympathy instead of robust strategies.
  • They drag you through the mire of your past instead of focusing you on the only place you can make change ... the present!
  • They're happy for you to be reliant on them instead of teaching you resilience and self-reliance.
  • They're quick to turn to medication as a long-term viable option. 

We're very different!

  • Our work is based on Choice Theory which identifies five basic needs that are genetically programmed in all of us to differing degrees. Therefore what works for one person will not necessarily work for another. 
  • Sympathy can be nice to receive and it can help relieve built-up discomfort but it won't get to the underlying causes of your stress and unhappiness. And it can actually help keep you stuck.
  • The only thing you can change about the past is your perception of it. If you want to change your present and your future the only place to do that is in the present. 
  • Our aim is to give you the tools to manage your own well-being.
  • In most cases, medication is only useful short-term. And you still need to work on the underlying causes of your stress and unhappiness.  


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We Will Help You Turn Your Life Around

By teaching you how to effectively meet your needs 

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You can begin this process for FREE. And we've made it so easy. Simply get your FREE report The #1 Reason You're Stressed, Anxious, Or Unhappy. Inside complete your Needs Satisfaction Profile and boom!! ... you're on your way to creating your very own Needs Satisfaction Blueprint.

"What a difference Choice Theory has made to our school! Under the careful guidance of Jeff Steedman our school has developed a greater understanding of the importance of relationships and how positive choices empower people to take charge of their lives. Give it a go and see the difference!"

Jenny Legatt
Principal Eagle Point Primary School

"The learning I have received from the "Steedman" method during the past six years has helped me enormously with day to day issues relating to personnel management but is a far greater benefit to my own personal development. Knowing the theory on basic needs and effect on our behaviour is extremely powerful stuff. External control method is generally the learnt way of life for most people, but since working with Jeff I've found the alternative way of "Choice Theory" is by far a more sound and logical way of bringing about behavioural changes to myself. This knowledge is not for "work" only, it is learning for "life"."

Paul Frescura
Team Leader, Engineering and Maintenance, Loy Yang B Power Station

""I had spiralled into burnout and was totally overwhelmed" I began working with Deb and Jeff during a period where I was under extreme work and financial pressure.   When you’ve been a high performer and able to rely on yourself to function at a certain level for a long time it’s frightening to arrive at a place where that’s no longer the case.  I felt undone and didn’t recognise myself. It was sudden and shocking. Jeff and Deb equipped me to take my power back by understanding my quality world picture as well as identifying my needs and how to structure a life around ensuring these get satisfied.  They gave me hope that things could get better. In fact, things could be better than before because this was an opportunity to ‘reset’ on a new platform of self awareness and sustainability. Their approach is unique in that it put me in the driving seat of my recovery and in some ways, was counter intuitive to the other advice I was receiving.  Rest, time out and disconnecting had a place when applied strategically but total avoidance produced more anxiety and powerlessness. Jeff explained this dynamic to me and while the conflicting advice was confusing, when I applied the techniques Jeff recommended, I couldn’t deny that I got better ! I had an immediate sense of accomplishment and relief when I was actively meeting my needs.  I’m on the up and up and highly recommend anyone who wants to take back control of their life to engage Jeff and Deb’s services. Abby Woollaston, Wellington New Zealand"

Abby Woollaston

"I was first introduced to Choice Theory in 2016 and then went on to do Basic Intensive training with Jeff. Learning Choice Theory and applying it daily has changed my life, my relationships, my work and my stress levels. I absolutely love it because it works, it does make a difference and it does give you personal freedom.  What I love the most about Choice Theory is that it sits perfectly with my Christian Faith and my growth as a person , and you can draw on its core teaching , time and time again. Jeff is an absolute pro and guru as a Choice Theory facilitator. He is so good at what he does. I have learnt from the best. Thank you so much Jeff and Deb. It's great that you are taking this one step further and sharing it to a much wider audience. I can absolutely guarantee everyone benefits from Choice Theory internal control psychology , and if everyone applies it to their daily life this world will be a much better place. Amen. Written with love and immense gratitude. Amanda Blandford: East Gippsland, Victoria, Australia"

Amanda Blandford
School Chaplain

YES! I Want To Create My Needs Satisfaction Blueprint, for free!

Here’s how It works. Enter your details in the form at the top of this page. Any of the buttons will take you there. You'll receive an instant download of our report The #1 Reason You're Stressed Anxious, or Unhappy. Inside that report is your Needs Satisfaction Profile. Simply complete that and wait for either wait for our email. 

Reading the report and completing your profile will take you about 30 minutes. If you have any questions or need any help you can always email Deb on [email protected] .

We do this so you can experience first hand the value of what we do. 

We've helped thousands of people by teaching them how to meet their needs and make the most effective choices they can in their lives. 

We can do the same for you! You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain!


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Identify your main area of stress and unhappiness so that we can help you to feel better fast. This is completely confidential and can be done on your own or with one-to-one support. 

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Hey I'm Deb


I've used Jeff's skills and Choice Theory to overcome my own significant mental health challenges.

I know first hand what it's like to struggle, to change my behaviours, to grow and to create the life I really want.

I've simplified the process so that you can create the life you really want too.

My goal is to help you in the same way I've been helped.

Yes, all that magic happens right here. So if you're ready to step into your true power, you’re in the right place.



Hi I'm Jeff


I've  worked in private counselling, as well as corporate, public sector and educational training for over thirty years. Through the skilful use of Choice Theory I can help you rapidly improve your current situation and equip you  with effective tools to move forward powerfully in your life.

I believe that each of us behaves in the best way we know how, in order to meet our needs and with the right support, we can achieve great success as we learn to "Take Charge Of Our Lives". 


If You Keep Doing What You've Been Doing You'll keep feeling the same

Are you using food, alcohol, shopping, or smoking to get through life? Are stress, fear, worry, and anxiety stopping you from enjoying things that other people take for granted? Do you get a tight, sick feeling in your stomach, have trouble sleeping, racing thoughts, and feelings of despair that often leave you in tears that you try to hide from those around you? Are you either afraid of or at the mercy of medications that leave you overweight, disconnected, itchy, thirsty, and unable to concentrate? Are your friends, family, and even your boss running out of patience? Do you sometimes just want to dig a hole and dive right in?

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